Why Many Nigerian Marriages Fail – Exclusive Interview with Therapist Shamseddin Giwa

In an exclusive interview with Premium Times, therapist Shamseddin Giwa sheds light on the reasons behind the high failure rate of Nigerian marriages. Giwa, who has been a marriage therapist for over two decades, attributes the issue to a multitude of factors, including societal pressures, financial issues, and cultural expectations. According to Giwa, one of the major pressures faced by women is the societal expectation to maintain a ‘perfect’ marriage, even in the face of abuse or dissatisfaction. This, he explains, often forces women to stay in unhappy marriages, as leaving is seen as a failure or a source of shame. Giwa also highlights the importance of open communication and understanding in a successful marriage. He emphasizes that couples must learn to listen to each other, express their feelings honestly, and work together to resolve conflicts. The therapist also discusses when it becomes necessary for a woman to leave a toxic relationship. According to him, it is crucial for a woman to prioritize her emotional and physical well-being above all else. If a marriage becomes abusive or otherwise harmful, Giwa advises that it is essential for the woman to seek help and prioritize her safety. He emphasizes that no marriage is worth sacrificing one’s health and happiness. The full interview with Shamseddin Giwa can be found on Premium Times Nigeria.